Each individual has a unique grouping of core issues that disrupts their perception of reality. These core issues can interfere with their ability to connect with people on a deeper level. This can make a person feel different or separated from their peers.
Consistently being aware of your thoughts and feelings can help break the cycle of self destruction. Thoughts often precede a person’s emotions but emotions consistently dictate behavior. Are a person’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors based in fear or anger or shame? Does the person have problems in recognizing the truth (perception of reality) or maybe in telling the truth (dishonesty)? Did something happen in childhood that they have not been able to talk about or even recognize?
These questions have to be asked and answered during alcohol rehab in order to overcome these potentially life threatening behaviors. When an alcoholic or drug addict practices behaviors they know are counter-productive or are contrary to what they believe is right, they are practicing egodystonic behaviors. The result of egodystonic behavior is a state of emotional distress that slowly eats away at them causing them to feel helpless until they decide to drink again.
The moment they decide to drink they feel empowered. Drinking is almost a side-effect of the decision.
The answer to overcoming alcoholism is to find healthier and more effective ways of dealing with emotional problems.
Telling the truth, exercising, working, making lists, sharing your feelings, mindfulness and 12-step therapy are just some the techniques we recommend to rehabilitate alcoholics.